Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, but finding true love is very hard, seemingly impossible. But we must never give up! A research was conducted and it was found out that men avoid ideal woman. Why is that? Read on to find out.
Here is an interesting story: “My friend is 25. She is a very nice girl, smart and well educated, a good dresser with a great job. She loves spending time with her friends in bars and at concerts. Guys really like her, but nonetheless, she is still single. Why? Because she has a cool head, and she knows exactly who should be with her. She’d never start a new relationship ”Just so I’m not alone“ or “Just to give it a try.” That’s why the majority of guys are labeled ”Dismissed” either from the first sight or right after the first date.”
Women in modern world don’t waste time on men that are not capable of family life and they quickly move on. That’s why some women in thirty’s have been already married and divorced or have children and are looking for new opportunities.
Women look for a flaw in their body so much, that they can imagine flaws and find imperfections in themselves and amplify them. That’s what happens when they lose self-esteem.
Most men on internet agree around this story: “Personally, I want a woman who can take care of me and take care of things around the house. I don’t want anybody who is going to be looking for attention every time we go out.”
If women are alone for a longer period of time, they lose self-esteem and become depressed. So when a good opportunity appears to break celibacy, they usually ruin it with trying too hard and being overly honest, and saying some stuff men don’t want to hear.
Usually pretty girls end up with jerks and good guys are afraid of hot chicks: Six years after my graduation I was introduced to a married man. We became friends, but I always felt this special bond between us. One day he confessed that he and I studied at the same university, and he really liked me back then. When I asked him why he hadn’t done anything about it, he said, “You looked so inaccessible, the most beautiful girl in the whole university. I knew you turned down even the most popular guys, so how could I compete with them? I thought you wouldn’t even look at me.”
“My husband’s ex-was such a “Miss Perfect.“ She was pretty and smart, and her zest for life was so inspiring. I heard him say that it wasn’t just a crush, but he was crazy about her. It was killing me. I tortured myself with one single question: ” What does he see in me? “Right before our wedding, I decided to ask him. He shrugged. “It was complicated because she was too perfect,” he said. ”Take us, for example, okay? We wake up early, but if we want we can get out of our bed in the evening or leave the dirty plates right beside our bed if we want to. We just know nothing terrible will happen to us if we do. But she was crazy about having everything done perfectly. You know, the perfectionist syndrome. So I said, “No, thank you!” “
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